Reasons

I am

never

upset

for the

reason

I think.

"A person
usually
has two
reasons
for doing
something:
a good reason and the real reason."
 
Thomas Carlyle
1795-1881, Scottish Philosopher

Justification or motive, the real reason lies not in the head,

but in the heart.

A step toward growing up is the ability to look inside ones heart 

and begin to know the real reasons why we act the way we do.

Fear and anger are the spawning pools for many or your worst feelings.

Fear and anger have many ways to disguise themselves in your head.

Fear and anger cannot dwell comfortably in your heart.

A gut feeling is God's way of giving you the real reason for feeling the way you do.

As children we have fear and anger, because we do not know.

As you grow older, we disguise the fear and anger and learn

to hide them among the other negative feelings that we have.

Those who do not grow up continue to throw temper tantrums,

stomp their feet, hold their breath until they get red in the face,

and plot to get even.

Those people who mature learn to listen, listen to learn, and

dispel their fears and anger with knowledge.

The real reason is because God said so.

If you know in your heart that you are trying your best, to do the will 

of your Higher Power, you will have no reason to fear or be angry.

If your self esteem is fearful, if you are always angry

with yourself, and you have no self confidence, find a friend

who can show you that you have the option to change

and that a faith in a loving Spirit of the Universe 

will give you the courage to make those changes.


If your relationships are based in fear and anger,

find people who have healthy, loving and trusting

relationships and learn from them.

If your spirituality is lacking because you fear God or

you are angry with God, find people who have a true

faith in a Higher Power who is love and kindness and

learn from them.

Today, learn to put your childish fears behind you.

Today, know that anger is the opposite of learning.

Today, know that God has all the answers and those

reasons will be given to you by the people God puts into your life.

Today, have no fear, no anger, and take the time to look into your heart

for the real reasons to feel happy, joyous and free.

Today, look into your heart to learn reasons to love.

Happiness is helping someone help themselves.
 
ME and the Boss
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