Negative fear??
O.K., the dumb
question is ???
What is
Positive Fear ???
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Positive fears are the God given instinctive and sometimes
intuitive fears that protect us from harm, our survival instincts,
those fears that are rational:
If it looks and sounds like a tiger, run.
If it smells like rotten eggs, don't eat it.
If it tastes like alcohol, don't drink it.
Negative fears are the emotionally created paranoia's
(emotions: the junction between mental and physical.)
that we create to protect our feelings.
Will they protect our lives ???
Yes, if you can believe your own justifications for having those fears.
"I'm afraid of flying," said the little girl to her Grandmother.
The Grandmother asks, "how do you know that you are afraid of flying,
have you ever been in an airplane and taken a flight??"
"No", replies the little girl,
"but my mother told me that we should be afraid of flying."
Do Mothers always know best??
Do teachers and doctors always know what is best for you??
A good sponsor should know only what is best for themselves,
and if it can work for you, use it, if not, find another sponsor.
Isn't it wonderful to know that that given the odds
you will be right half of the time, the secret is to join the choir
that is singing the same tune that you are.
Listen to the argument, snap judgements based on negative irrational fears
and contempt prior to investigation has killed many a drunk.
The moral of the story is, examine your fears, seek out friends and professionals
to give you their opinions about your fears and keep the positive fears that will make
your life happy, joyous and free and give the rest , the negative fears, to a Higher Power,
who, given the strength of your faith, will protect you from harm and fears,
both real and imagined.
Fear is the lack of Faith.
Don't drink, go to meetings and fear only the "Know-it-all."
Happiness is an emotionally calm day.
Happiness is helping someone help themselves..
ME and the Boss
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