Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Boundries

. Love is enjoying togetherness,

having mutual respect and knowing

that a partnership is made up of two.

Boundaries are the mutual respect

part of love.

Everyone needs a boundary.

Do not let your love of another

be so intense that you suffocate the soul

of the one you love.

Do not let someone's love be so demanding

that it suffocates your soul.

Stress is the alarm that a boundary is reached. When the boundary is reached,

politely reduce the stress. To reduce the stresses communicate your feelings,

good and bad, to the one you love. Let those people who are stressing you out

know that you are having bad feelings as a result of their behaviors. To be free

of destructive stress, don't sweat the small stuff and realize that all stuff is small.

How important is it??

To reduce the stress, go to where there is love. Prayer and meditation will vanquish

all stress. Understand that mutual respect is not a license to abuse. Understand that

love is not a license to abuse. Just because you are the boss, you are married, you are

the parent, it does not give you the right of ownership to the soul and the will of another

of God's creatures. Learn that you can help grown the boundaries of the one you love.

Be mean, be nasty, be disrespectful and the boundaries of others will become very

wide and very high. Be kind, be loving, have patience and tolerance and the boundaries

of the ones you love will become narrow and low. The more you love the closer you can

get to the heart of the one's you love and lower the boundaries become.

"The spiritual meaning of love is measured by what it can do.
Love is meant to heal. Love is meant to renew.
Love is meant to bring us closer to God."      ~ Deepak Chopra

Today, when you are with others, display mutual respect.

Today, always remember, mutual respect begins with you.

Today, feel your feelings, and do not let yourself become stressed out.

Today, love.

Happiness is helping someone help themselves.

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ME and the Boss

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